each step is the whole. inspiration.

loving the blue shoes living at the base of their very own trees. or are they the trees shoes? maybe the belong to eachother.

more. more what? the only thing i can think of that i can be more of is Love. BE MORE LOVE. yes. that would be the message to me.

and once i was more love i got more love who knows how much i love a yellow leafed tree against a concrete wall in the back alley of my friends new analog photography studio? who put that there for me? be love. get love. and a little yellow leaf to tuck into our treasure bag.

oodles and oodels of O’s. metal. shiny. pretty. waiting to be used again. (tip. grab one of these things, secure it to your ceiling, slip some hooks on the things (what are those called not the rim but the…..?) and hang your pots and pans from it.

in my family we call this the facciabrutt which translates into something like grumpy face. grumpy or not shes herself on Fire. it’s brilliant. she is not happy to be 1. wearing her friend stella’s purple puffy coat. and 2. walking. she’s a bit of a lady of leisure; why walk when you can ride. not easy born unto hiking and walking fanatics.

the misty view of the ferry that brings you to Alaska. this ferry is run Alaska style. you hop on. car or not. bring your sleeping bags. kick off your shoes. makes friends. camp in the lounge with everyone else. share your frenchpress with new friends. watch northern lights. stop off at hotsprings. at night we see it all lit up from our bed, waiting to be all cleaned up for the next voyage. we are broke. but i do hope we can all hop on here and head to The Last Frontier someday soon.

the sky. your colors are gods dreams. your movement is his lover dancing. thank you. thank you beautiful world.

friends who come visit you with big black garbage and Louis Vitton bags. who don’t mind sleeping on the floor because we forget to charge things like air pumps for air mattresses.

above friend who is not only beautiful but wildly sincere. if your ass looks big in jeans she’ll let you know. if she thinks you are divinely perfectly gorgeous and you don’t see it in yourself, she’ll tell you straight up. she shares her uncensored tales while popping chocolate covered caramel and ritualistically pouring wine. she gives of herself freely and trusts me to capture one of her many authentic after- midnight -stripped- down -to- our primal- art- making- wildgirl- faces. her golden allure and storytelling spirit linger in our house long after she does. thankfully.

other friends who just so happen to write 11 songs in like a weeks time and record an album that your are going to LOVE. and she trusts that when i snap the photo i won’t post it publically. sorry. better get used to it Keri the Rock Star.

reaching for a book and finding a barbie doll enjoyng some reading time between Bass Culture and The Peterson Field Guide To North American Birds. she has diverse interests; nature and heavy bass. can’t judge a book by their cover now can you?

And Freya. Healer and midwife to the otherworld. Goddess of sensuality and fertility. Cloaked in feathers. Most Beautiful and propitious. Patron to all Witches and Keeper of the Runes. She has a secret. At dawn, go with your daughter to the safest spot in the woods.  There must be thunder and rain. Wooden bowls. Naked. Drawing a circle around both of you in the dirt.  Draw some other pictures, you’ll know what when the time comes.  Wait for the sun to show its first moment of face. Lift your arms up….then see what happens.  If you dare.

These two massive warrior goddess energies were invited to hang with us this Hallow’s Eve.  They agreed.  We hope to keep them around.

　~~~

Future Fire Spinner.

The sisterhood of the pumpkin patch.

~~~

I was determined to make the damn things.  I’ve been talking about wanting to make these prayer flags for every holiday, turning of season kind of deal.  For Hallow’s Eve the plan was to make some and then string ‘em across the front porch.  They were suppose to say BE MAGIC, with a raven block print on either side of the letters.  The letters and print where going to be stenciled on lovely little pieces of fabric.  They would be used year after  year.  But of course I am not her.  Or her.   I am just not and I am never going to be so there. 

BE MAGIC only lived in my heart.  So Plan B was: GIVE THANKS for thanksgiving.  And you know if I was one of those crafty mamas I’d have a shit load of fabric scraps neatly organized in some shelf and I’d have ribbon and stencils and a bunch of prayer flag making shit right here under my nose.  But I am not and I don’t and I was like no way am I going to go to the craft store and drop another thirty bucks.  This is about GIVING THANKS.  So I looked at the girls and I said, you know what I am thankful for? and they said, what? and i said, all those awesome water color paintings you did the other day and daddy’s box of graphite pencils and the twine I found in the junk drawer and our oil pastels and clothespins and thumbtacks.

Let’s get to work.

(there is an S at the end thanks, it’s just hiding.)

Give thanks for whatever you have right now at this very moment because it can transform into anything you want.

ZADIE looks just like you, she says.

This was after I tell her Echo baby is screaming for “wowwypops” (lollypops).

She does? I say.  Then I say to Echo, but really into the receiver, Echo, you look like Mama.

Zadie looks like you, she says.

And so I let it be. I am her mama. I honor her. That’s all I need to know.

* * *

She was named Echo before she came into my womb. Approximately four months before. I stumbled upon a story about Echo, not the Greek Myth, but the pre-Greek myth, the pagan myth. The myth where Echo was not silenced, but a Creatrix.

If I have another baby, which I. WILL.NOT her name will be Echo I tell my friend.

Now don’t ask me why she wasn’t named that. Maybe it was the sideways looks. Maybe it was the sounds of people going like this to me when I told them I thought Echo was her name: Echo echo echo echo. As in echoing. Yes. People actually did this to me.

And when she was born. She was not named. The first two. They were named. They came here very clearly with words to call them. And if she did, I didn’t hear. I was too busy trying to find a name that wasn’t so strange. Lucia. Nika. Zaida.

And when I went down to apply for her birth certificate I just did it. I wrote on the form : Zaida Echo Skyla Dove. And then I crossed it out and just wrote Zaida Dove. I felt sick and then I thought, no, the man does not need to know all her spirit names. I know them. That’s all.

And then one day, not too long ago, she screamed at me. She screamed loud.

MINE ECHO BABY!

Huh?

MINE ECHO BABY!

Mom! the middle one who is intricately connected to her her informs me, She wants you to call her Echo Baby.

I look at her. Spitting image of me. Huge brown eyes with puppy dog bags. Saggy checks like she is storing walnuts for the winter. Big old teeth behind pouty lips. What is your name, I ask her.

ECHO BABY!

Okay then. I scoop her up and hold her close and whisper in her ear. Of course you are, Echo Baby. You are whoever you want to me.

* * *

We slip. We call her Zazz. Zades. Zaza. Zadie. Zaida. And she looks at us and screams. MINE ECHO BABY!

Echo baby wans cooks (cookie).

Mia Echo baby doggy (mia took echo’s doggy)

Echo Baby Mama Nights. (echo wants mama’s night-nights)

She knows her own name. And that’s that. People are going to have trouble with this. When I told my mother she says, Poor baby. You are confusing her.

I’m not confusing her. She came to me. She voiced herself. This is her name. I don’t have a right to call her something she is not. She is only shy of two years old, but she is wise, older than the glacial carvings in the mountains and the rocks that wash upon the shore. Older than the grooves on the redwood and the crackle of fire.

I was/am confused, believe me. For almost 2 years I have been calling different forms of Zaida. And ya know what, it hasn’t ever felt like her name. Little Dove, yes. Z? Nope. But Echo. Yes. Echo. Yes. This is my daughter. And I made a blunder back then and I can admit that. And the most beautiful thing is this lesson in deeply listening. Maybe I didn’t do it back then. But I did it now. I heard her.I am hearing her, deep in my gut.

She is owner of herself, deeply knowing who she is. Why she is here. I am only a vessel, warm arms to keep her comforted, eyes to witness her climb on a chair all by herself. Ears to hear her needs. And a heart and mind open enough to say, Girl, you be who you want. You tell me. I will never doubt you.  It is true.  These wise souls come here knowing.  Deeply knowing.  Who am I to say to her, but echo baby, everyone else things you’re Zaida.  Oh F that.

So meet Echo Baby aka little ladybug.

She is very loud. So loud I wonder if there isn’t something true to the Greecian Myth of Echo,  doomed to be only an Echo, after annoying Narcissus.  Maybe she is here now to be heard, to be loud.

And maybe someday she will look at me and say, I’m Zaida again.  And I will say, Yes you are.  Because she is all things.  Everything there is to be.  Everything.  

1. where is your cell phone?
It’s actually next to me. But until this morning it was in a bowl of rice trying to draw all the moisture out of it from it’s little “bath” in the dish water.

2. your hair?
Seven dreadlocks that somehow continue to form over and over again throughout the years, even when I chop them off. Left over henna red. Clumpy ringlets. Washed last night. Half braided and tied in a knot with itself in back.

3. your mother?
Warrior womb. Giver of life. Martyr. Neurotic. MILF at 79. Smart. Excellent baker. OCD Cleaner. Package sender. Full of Faith.

4. your father?
Goodfella. Strong, Genius. Passionate. Rebel. Writer. Singer. Generous. Hot tempered. A god with a frying pan and Italian sausage and hot peppers and onions. Gorgeous. Muscular. Silly. Affectionate. Baby lover. Stubborn.

5. your favorite food?
Raw. Sushi. Anything that comes with a dip. Thai.

6. your dream last night?
I didn’t dream because I didn’t sleep. The winds, oh the winds. They shook the house, I tried to fight the fear, but it was so intense. I just stayed up all night until the died down around 5am. 60 miles an hour they traveled.

7. your favorite drink?
Americano. Double. With fresh cream. OR fresh made Chai with honey and coconut milk. OR Whiskey on the rocks with a splash of bubbly water and 2 limes. OR Absinthe. And water. I love water.

8. your dream | goal?
To live in love and harmony.

9. the room you are in?
My beautiful, beloved bedroom. Antique writing desk. View of the bay and the islands. Vintage pink and brown delicate flowered wallpaper. Crystal chandelier. Baby sleeping on my boob. Sula in bed reading a book in our bed the one her DaDa made for us . Re-mix of Peter Tosh’s Legalize playing in the background from the downstairs stereo. The light is like the breath of angels right now.

10. hobbies?
Word Alchemy. Beach Comber. Applying eye make-up. Dancing in a way that should be illegal. Reading long novels in the bath.

11. what is your fear?
Fear

12. where were you last night?
At home with my beautiful girls reading a novel while they made castles with blocks after we ate black beans and rice inside sprouted corn tortilla with lime and avacado. Late night Dada returns to help with bedtime which did not happen until 9:45 because my girls are on speed or something. The winds kept us all alert last night.

13. something you are not?
Organized.

14. muffins:
gluten free, vegan, pumpkin dark chocolate chunk.  Wait. Fuck muffins.  GIMME CUPCAKES! 

25. wish list items:
more boots. A fancy hat. A red wool coat. A buyer for my writing project. That my children always feel the love they deserve.

26. where did you grow up?
New York State.

17. last thing you did?
Made brown sushi rice and folded laundry and put on eye make-up (this is a new thing).

18. what are you wearing?
Black legging and a brown tank top and a baby asleep across my lap. Bare feet.

19. your TV:
Nope. None here.

20. your pets?
live in oklahoma. hoping to get one for our home soon..

21. your friends:
are beautiful.

22. your life:
Is a dream.

23. your mood?
Ready.

24. missing someone?
Sisterhood.

25. vehicle:
Bowing head in shame. A big silver Toyota Sienna Minivan. Post partum purchase that should have never been. Now we owe more on it than it’s worth. Ugh.

26. something you’re not wearing:
a bra and undies.

27. your favorite store?
Any little boutique that is not a chain that has smoochy little clothes and sweet things…such as this one www.thepaperdoll.net

28. your favorite color?
Aqua. Flaming Red. Grass Green. Sunset Orange. Deep Purple. Gold.

29. the time you last laughed?
today.

30. the time you last cried?
Two days ago. We were driving out to the house that is in the process of a short sale to pick up the last of our stuff. The beautiful drive down that lush valley, my heart ache for the loss, for the space, for the mountains that linger, the rivers that rush, the eagles that soar, the quiet. The peace. Mine. My girls. But it was bittersweet. I am so much happier where I am now. But the dream is gone and that brought a rush of tears down my face.

31. your best friend:
isn’t here.

32. one place you go over and over?
The ugly place in my head where insecurity of my creative worth lives. AND the lovely juicy spot in my heart that makes me pinch myself: do i really have these three divine daughters?  Wow.

33. guilty pleasure?
Paying a babysitter to watch my kids to go do writing that I am not yet getting paid for.

34. favorite place to eat?
Home. With Brooke cooking.

35. where do you want to be six years?
With my family. Creating. Exploring. Learning. Expressing our True Selves.

I thought it was a harmonium when I called my husband. I know that we are broke, I said. But you know I’ve always wanted one. So I am letting you know, I might get it. I might not, but I might.

I didn’t get it that day. It was exactly the same amount of money I owed to Sula’s preschool and so I opted to pay them. It was either pay you or buy a harmonium from Goodwill, I told her teacher. Dumb choice, she said. Go get that instrument.

The next day I went back to Goodwill. I was thinking that somehow it was going to be part of my writing ritual. I’ll play it before I sit down, I told him. I’ll play it and sing the four Sanskrit songs I know and then I will write, I assured him, we all need a ritual. He was silent. Then he laughed. And then he sighed. And then I bought it. I bought it in it’s red velvet lined suitcase. I bought it with it’s golden glittered sparkle keys and mother-of-pearl-body and yellow beaded note board. Lira it said in gold writing across the front. Made in Italy.

Italy?

I went home searched on the internet for Lira harmoniums, and of course. Of course it wasn’t a harmonium. It was an accordion. I’m Sicilian, not Indian. My harmonium is an accordion.

And then the story came back to me.

I never met any of my grandmothers. This is how it is when your parents have you older in life. I had a grandfather for fifteen years and he was my greatest human gift besides my own flesh and blood. But that’s all, nobody else. And my ancestors stories mostly got lost, sailed with waves across the seas. They are from the Old Country. But what I do know passed was down from the mouth of an old aunt, the place where stories stream from, like a verbal inkwell, she shared what she knew. I ate them up in my soul, hoping to capture who they were and where I came from. How their eyes searched for truth. How their bellies called for food. How their feet walked the path. How their hands played the keys. How their arms held on to each other.

He was called Giuseppe. He was a musician, an accordion player. He was poor, a nomad, an artist. He traveled around Southern Italy playing music for the wealthy, at their homes or second homes or third homes.

She was the daughter of a prominent family, “aristocrats” was the word my aunt used. Her name was Paolina. She wasn’t Sicilian, but from somewhere north, exact location still being revealed. He came and played music for her family one summer. Out on warm Sicilian nights, against the blue of the Mediterranean Sea, she sat and ate fish and olives and drank fresh cherry juice and listened to him while his sounds kissed the air.

She fell in love.

So did he.

And so they left together, she gave up the riches and the homes and the comfort. She traveled by the side of her musician. Her family was in an uproar. She didn’t care.

Soon a baby entered her womb. Their only source of money was from his traveling sound, so they continued to cover ground, accordion in arm, hope in heart. This was a different life for her. She was used to fine things. Safe things. She was delicate and the pregnancy stole her health. She safely gave birth to a baby girl, Salvatrice. But soon after Paolina fell ill and died.

Giuseppe came back shortly after with a plan.

He was going to America.

* * *

I cry in longing and inspiration. Salvatrice, my grandmother is only a story, handful of pictures and a pair of pointy silver rim reading glasses my father kept in his hankie drawer. Nine kids total but she watched three of them die. She lost her husband while my father was growing in her belly. The aunt who holds these records, these stories, is dying right now, as I type, almost 100 years old. This is my bloodline. To tell these stories, to let them live. My children deserve to know who lives in them, whose ghosts visit them on windy autumn nights, carry them through dreams and stroke their cheeks while they sleep.

Earth.

This is new thing for me to say seeing I thought I always missed target and landed a few planets off. But something about today, the tune the wind whistles and the way white caps on the water pop, this place is okay.  It’s home.

While I was vacuuming this morning, blaring M.I.A in a way too small tank top that was totally stretched out from the baby pulling the neckline for boobs all night, I looked up and noticed out my picture window that the construction workers from across the street where looking over toward my house. I look down. My boobs are totally hanging out. I am not so sure they can see that far away, such detail, the sun glaring a bit. But I thought, fuck it. What other planet gives a woman a better set of night-nights. Even though mine point down this days and there are little lines like rivers all over them, I like them. Let the workers look. Enjoy boys! Have fun on Earth.

I also like this planet for other reasons. For instance, life can be really good at the same time it totally sucks. I don’t sleep. Every morning I wake up and look like I had a cocaine and mojito binge the night before. My man is still working like a dog. I haven’t seen him at home in four days. Yes, that means he comes home so late and exhausted, way after I go to bed, which means we have countertops covered in dishes (he’s my dish man). It also means the girls take out missing their daddy out on me. Lots of I Hate You. And You’re Stupid, Mama! Which is valid. I am the one who does the impulse buying like antique Italian made, mother of pearl key accordions and vintage red leather mini-skirts. And mini-vans.

I miss him. He misses me. He is on the verge of being sick. So am I.

But at the same time, our hearts speak magic. We are so provided for.

I am getting to study midwifery with these folks here in Bellingham I just got offered the deal of the life on an vintage bio-diesel flatbed truck which will become something, but not totally, like this (shhhh, it’s his birthday gift). I FINALLY finished (well so close) my treatment and pitch for something so special I hope you get to see it in moving action someday. And in about 1 week I am done, sending it off, hoping that all my hard work and years of hand-jobs in Los Angeles will pay off somehow. Or maybe it’s just my karma. And maybe nothing will happen with it at all except I DID IT. I am not an outcome kind of person. The process is so much more interesting to me. And for the past nine months, nine months TO THE DATE, I have created a world of characters; subversive, controversial, ordinary people. What I can say is that it has something to do with midwifery and Los Angeles and writers and hookers and it could possibly have more unadulterated vaginas ever to be shown on cable television. How could one resist that?

So I have been busy living this, not dreaming it, but living it. I spent so many years dreaming. Now it’s time to show up to my life.

And each step I take I can feel the Earth support me. Really hold me up. How very kind of her considering She could just toss me off any time She damn well pleases.

* * *

My girls are becoming Jesus freaks. It’s so great. I can say this because I am firmly a zen pagan punk rock yogi rasta atheist.. It all started last week with the Strega Nona book-on-tape we grabbed from the library. Tomie Di Paolo’s Strega Nona does Christmans, and even though she is a witch in Calabria, Italy, she still knows Christmas has a magic all on it’s own. It also holds a handful of super serious Christmas tunes. A lot of Christ the Kings and Baby Born in Bethlehem and good stuff like that. Mia sings along loud and with gusto. I almost want to go to church just so she can be in the choir. And last night in bed Sula smuggled in a book that my Aunt Betty sent last Christmas. Aunt Betty is an Old School Catholic, not bible reading, but totally Jesus and Mary loving. I try to put this book in the back of the shelve because reading it sort of scares me, but in reality, it’s totally fine, practically benign. It’s about a little girl who stresses on Christmas Eve because she doesn’t leave Baby Jesus a gift. Her mother soothes her and the little girl teaches the mother the true lesson of Love at Christmas.

So there was the little baby who lived with the angels and magical winged creatures at The Source. He wanted to come to Mama Earth to because wanted to remind everyone here that we should all Love each other. He found the belly of a compassionate goddess mama and then he was born at home, in a barn under a magical star, just like you all were. And then he grew up walking with his friends telling people to remember we are all brothers and sisters, that we should all just love each other.

They cuddle in close to me. Before Mia closes her eyes she says, I love you Jesus.

I am not the least bit anything. I bring my kids up so absent dogma that it’s amazing to see what will resonate with them, what opens their hearts. They watched me Hallow’s Eve put out the skulls and the wine and the chocolate and carefully laid out the photos of our ancestors. They watched me paint symbols of witchery and lore all over my body before I took them out trick or treating. They hear me talk to the plants. They came from my womb. They know. I trust that always, they will know.

I trust.

I stumble into life everyday.  

I wake up with leftover ash covering my skin like a gown  from the ceremonial fire that I was at somewhere before I opened my eyes and I brush it off with disregard.  My thighs ache from the ritualist dance that must have taken over my limbs and there are burn marks on my ass from getting too close to the flames.  The back of my head has seven dreadlocks by getting dragged around by my ankles.

I stumble and then surrender to the fall and just as I am about to get slammed the wind catches me and I ride the air waves, believing they will carry me until my own wings grow. This morning I am pissed my dreams force me to into the real world and I have somewhere to be at a certain time and only one sock left in the drawer  There is no moment worth casting aside as just another annoyance, but I do over and over again.  There is no process that can be avoided, no journey that is not worth it’s weight in gold.  Yet I curse this one.  There is nothing more important than a first breath [each breath is always a first breath], yet I hold mine religiously.  There is nothing more grand than our last breath [each one can always be the last] and I am still scared shitless to die.  I stand in my closet ignoring screams from bathroom (someone needs toilet paper) and the kitchen (someone wants vitamins) I stand there wondering what would look good atop a pair of pinstrip pants, what would look good without a bra because my only one is missing.  There was nothing that looked good.  Topless,  rushing around to investigate what might live in the the dirty piles on the floor saying motherfucking laundry under my breath about 25 times,  sure that the construction workers from across the street could see me.  In front of the huge class window, I was a little grossed out and a little turned on.  And there it was.  Magic.  Nothing is no more or no less than it.   I can’t cast away even the most simpliest of days as ordinary.  My story is magic.  So is yours. Tell it.  Don’t just write it, though.  Live it. 

***

I had to write something about eating placentas and a part of it came out like this.  It’s been said over and over but it’s always worth repeating, or at least I think so.

"Each of us has our own personal mystery of how we meet birth; in a dark alley or a green meadow or an ocean of blue. A soft blanket by a fire, a warm tub of water, an operating table or a mix of them all. Whether we like it or not, it owns us, uses us, gifts us, shakes us up, swallows us, spits us out and cradles us. It forces us, hands tied behind our backs and our eyelids pulled open there to the dustiest corners of ourselves; the places we obsess and all that we ignore. Birth is that present moment, a reminder of who we have been and who we surrender to become. It offers a challenge to our humanness, giving the choice; faith or fear? Or both. It allows us to build walls to slam ourselves against and tools to smash them down. It hands us a key to open our cage and release into the world, crossing our fingers that the spirit emerges full of grace and healing, that it ascends with the wings of a free bird."

Feeling like a freebird.  But only because those ashes were so real.

Love wins.

Mia. You are Six. Worldly. Wordy. Questioning. Sassafras. Kind. Rude. Bold. Brave. Pushy. Helpful. Stick your tongue at me 100 times a day. Name caller. Bed cuddler. Loud dreamer. Drooler. Baby lover. Greens eater (this week). Honey thief. Sugar stealer. Amazing singer. You- can’t- possibly -be -white dancer. A good friend. Intuitive. Totally of this earth. Ultimate beauty. Fancy. Fast. Faster. Fastest. In love with a good book. Family girl. Board game player. Family Fashion Consultant. Made me a mother. Cry baby. Big Girl. Listener. Storyteller. Discoverer. Sap-fanatic and collector. Drama Queen. Long legs. Kicker. Blonder than blond. Orange specks in eyes. Scar on your left check. All day long art maker. Messy but fantastic baker. Grandma lover. Swimmer. Rock licker. Deep sea dreamer. Viking warrior. Pirate slayer.  Skateboarder. Sand digger. Brave. Camper. Fair. Body aware. Not a biker (yet). Rollerskater. Fantastical. Feather finder. Bird geek. Fish expert. Slug saver. Fairy translator. Venus channeler. Mis-matcher. Headstander. Forever Young. Strongest. Gentlest. Girl.

My girl. Your own girl. Teacher. Healer. Sage Seer. Ordinary, everyday miraculous person.

{by the way i had to hand my crunchy mama card for the shade of pink you wanted.  you wanted pink, like REAL pink, like HOT pink, like DAY GLO.  So I pushed aside the beet juice and the smashed raspberries of birthdays past and bought the nastiest stuff I could find, most likely, filled with red and yellow #666.  but the look on your face when you saw your cake?  worth the toxins.  every last one of them.  happiness overides it and heals.  i am sure of it.}

Thank you a million times over.  Again and again.  I know you know I try.  I know you know I love you.  I know how hard you live. Sometimes you just feel cruddy and you tell me and we sit with it and sometimes you feel like you are high and we ride that swell. Watching you grow is an honor.  I am accountable because you see right through me and call me out when I’m a phoney and not present.  Every day I savor the lessons, our bliss, our struggles.  I savor it all, because all we have is this, right here.  Perfection.  Failure. Beauty. Insides turned out. A mess.  Lost socks.  Splattered paint on rental home wall.  A very wet kiss on my cheek.  An empty wallet but four hands full of hot cocoa.  A pile of books to read to eachother and a pile powdered sugar you spilled all over the pantry floor.  We have tantums and unicorn kingdoms.  We have eachother. 

"

my divine flower.  truly the gift that re-minded me of the goddess of all things fabulous and sensual and beautiful.  My libra girl, I love you.

mama mary b.